hello I am new to this sight and have posted my story in the new section under 'does anyone know anything about jaw cancer' however I really felt I know what you are and have been going through and I am so sorry to hear about your father. I hope your brother will recover from his ordeal, it seems so unfair that they both have suffered at the hands of cancer. Whilst I can offer little advice, I just wanted to know my thoughts are with you, kind regards Su (daughter of Janet, who has jaw cancer)