hi everyone. well. one of the worst scenerios that you can imagine happened Thurs. Both cancer drs. came in after an hour of a nurse explaining the process of radiation and told us that the CT sscan shows spread in both lungs and the adrenal glands. they want us to have a PET scan this week. and they talk as if it is a done deal and chemo will be no help. my poor dad is just in shock as our whole family. a call to the lung surgeon gave us hope as he says that only 3 months ago he checked the lungs during surgery, and they had old scarring, but no cancer and that the adrenal gland swelling could be lots of things. They dont even want to do any radiation of the gum tumor because they say whats the use. have any of you ever heard of all of this before? Any advice? We are devestated. Thanks, everyone. Daughter