Brian,
Do you have any recommendations as to where to go? I'm sure you know what I mean when I say everyone has the answers for me but me.. All my friends and co-workers think they have all the answers and they are sure what they would do if it was them... The thing is, anyone who hasn't had this, just doesn't know, they just think they do. It is much harder to figure out when it is yourself. You have been cancer free for some time then? I think this forum is so much help for all of us, we certainly won't agree on everything, but it is so good to talk to people in similar situations isn't it? Thanks