I am mostly concerned with the fact that her Dr wants her to "wait and see" about her neck and the fact that he did not rebuilt her tongue with the free flap or do anything with the hole that is now left on the floor of her mouth. Mom is not willing to wait untill the new year to re-test her neck and neither am I . I do not understand how one day it is cancer in 2 nodes then the next there is none. Then the third day they say it might be. She wants the most agressive treatment possible. I just arrange what she asks....I am her servant.