Wow, Georgia. I don't have any advice, exc. to say that you are one strong cookie. I wouldn't presume to advise you. I just wanted to say that my heart goes out to you to have such a decision to make. The problem is that nobody can see into the future, so you have to use the best advice you can get. I believe that I would be going as fast as I could for a second opinion, to give myself more information upon which to base my decision.