Katie,
Keep on posting your concerns, questions and anything else--everyone really does want to hear--so many have been there before you and are going through this at the same time as you

Brenda

Brenda in UK--Diagnosis 30/5/07--undifferentiated carcinoma in right jawbone and muscles. Stage 4
6/7/07--new diagnosis primary is in lung. Finished 4cycles of palliative carboplatin/gemcitabine
therapy September 07
Now dying to live!