Hi Sue-
During Charlie's treatment-even the slightest movement of his neck would cause his skin to bleed. It looked like his whole neck was covered in thick scabs. And it would flake all over. He didnt want to go out of the house because he didnt want people to stare.
But it did get better! It started clearing up with one week left of treatment. Now two weeks after treatment- it is nice (new) skin. I know how scary it is to see, but our oncologist told us "If it is this bad on the outside-imagine what it is doing on the inside".
I remember thinking that it was too much, but I trusted the doctor and he madeit thru treatment!
If you have concerns-talk to the doctor- I'm sure they can calm any concerns you have.
Charlie also got thick cream to put on on the weekends only and cold compressess when it started to hurt. Ask the nurses or doctor when you go the next time. Anything to help him get thru treatment! Best of Luck for you and your father!