Linda - Thanks for the response about the Aranesp. They didn't tell us anything about it as far as side effects. I didn't really think it was that, but thought I'd inquire. I think he is really feeling "not in control" of the everyday things and it is frustrating him. Must have been building. I do not trust myself to even talk to him right now, because I am still upset. But hopefully things will even back out.
Michele

Michele, caregiver to husband, Jesse, SCC diagnosed 1/5/06 unknown primary, lf neck mass >6 cm. Chemo (Cisplatin 2x; Carboplatin & Taxol 2x) & XRT radiation 39X ending 4/4/06. Rad neck dissection 8.5 hrs 4/13/06. 30 HBO treatments Fall 2006.