Thanks for the responses. Unfortunately, this is no longer an option for us.

I will post the details of our last week later on on the general board. I don't quite have the energy or the state of mind to talk about it as I am still coming to terms with it but the details have to be known in hopes that it could help someone else.

thanks
LILY

wife to 36 yr old husband diagnosed with SCC on 7/6/05, tongue dissection and radical neck dissection on 7/15/05, 2nd biopsy on 9/15/05 and found carcinoma in-situ. Starting radiation and chemo on Oct 05