Dear Heidi, what a challenge for your family! While I can't speak to the issues above[other than appreciate your mother-in-law wanting to be able to make her own choice]I do hope the best for you all. Amy

CGtoJohn:SCC Flr of Mouth.Dx 3\05. Surg.4\05.T3NOMO.IMRTx30. Recur Dx 1\06.Surg 2\06. Chemo: 4 Cycles of Carbo\Taxol:on Erbitux for 7 mo. Lost our battle 2-23-07- But not the will to fight this disease

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