Paul
Hi
In the UK we do not have the freedom with in our health service to travel around the country getting extra advice, (maybe not always a bad thing as not all Docs agree) But for what it is worth, I trawled this site to give my self a crash course in oral cancer, and the main points that related to my staging, this empowered me to absorb the suggested treatment plan that I was given (which I never doubted for a moment, the phase, slegdehammer to crack a nut springs to mind) So take a deep breath and read and learn, I fully appreciate you will need to be near your family, this doesn't always mean second class treatment, many of this forum have had good treatment close to home.
So my advice take all the facts you can from this site, write it all down clearly and then one by one get all your questions answered to your satisfaction.
I also hate people who leave you hanging overnight!!!!!
Sunshine... love and hugs
Helen