Dear Brenda and David
Like Eileen I was also too upset to answer your post at first reading.
It`s just not fair! Childish I know but it`s how I feel. I know that as caregivers we are not experiencing the physical pain, but God it hurts.
My Mantra was an Emmerson quote.
" What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. "
Hang in there guys, lots of positive vibes coming your way.

Love
Marica