I think the problem is my friend has no idea what she is talking about.... She never asks the drs anything and she doesn't seem to hear anything they ever tell her. I bet the dr did tell her all about it, she just blocked it out. I kinda wish I could go with them and take notes when the dr tells them things... I'll give her the info and see if that helps calm her a little. Thanks all...

(I really hope she snaps out of this stage soon. I understand how stressful and scary it must be, but I think this has been going on too long maybe? She is not able to make decisions or help her husband or anythng....)