Thank you for your advice and kind words. I know I sounded a little stressed before..... I've had to handle so many things in the past three years that I think I lose it now and again. (My 56 year old aunt died of sudden cardiac arrest in the grocery store, my mother had three heart attacks in 6 weeks that resulted in a triple bypass, my best friend was in a car wreck that left her in a coma, my grandmother passed away, my husband and I were separated twice and had just recently gotten our lives back together 6 months before his diagnosis....I won't go on with the pity party, but I guess being caregiver to all of the above caught up with me) Finding this site has really helped...not only with the cancer that my husband is fighting, but with my overall outlook on life and people. God bless you all.. If I can help any of you at any time, please know that I will try to return the favor.
Mandi