DonnaJean, I had other things done at the same time as the neck, so I cannot speak to length of surgery, however, if he does not have a trach, he will be able to talk when he wakes up, although his throat may be sore from the intubation. But he will be able to communicate. As far as driving, I was perfectly capable of it, but for the most part played princess and let myself be chauffeured around (grin). I saw a physical therapist once, who gave me some exercises that I did for a few weeks, which eliminated a small pain I had experienced in my shoulder. A minor matter, but the exercises were easy and worked great. I know you are going to surprised at how well your husband does.
Joanna