B:
You and Brian are going through treatments that seem deterined to be as tough or tougher then the disease they are battling. My husband also ended up in the hospital with blod clots.
You need to take some time for yourself( deep breath) and then get honest answers from his doctors- Have them define poor prognosis- terminal? soon? eventually? quality of life? Then talk with your beloved husband and Amy says it better then anyone. When you have the facts, Brians desire then share with your family. You are doing everyhting you can and being ehausted and feeling like giving up is a very normal part of being a caregiver.

Paula


caregiver to Gil dx SCC 11/05 T2N2M0
finished tx 3/10/06 stage 4 rt tonsil,BOT,2 lymphnodes,35IRMT,6 chemo