I too have wondered how many of the people on these boards have been affected by the terrible tradgedy which has been the main topic of news in the uk this week.I wasnt sure if it was appropriate to mention it here but as you have started it i will take this opportunity to send my sincere condolences to everyone in the usa and in particular people in this forum who have been touched by this madness.
liz inthe uk

Liz in the UK

Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.

Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.