Welcome aboard, Sheila, you`ve come to the right place, we`re all hanging on to the same lifeboat, in one way or another.I`ve been through 6 surgeries with Frank in less than 2 yrs......Currently, we are facing an inoperable tumor, but definitly still fighting. Where do we find the strength and courage to go on ? Beats the hell out of me, but we do. We all have good days and horrid ones. Watching this happen to someone you love is horrid beyond words. But, believe me you aren`t alone, there a great bunch of caring folks here, willing to share their love and prayers with you..........Dee