My husband Dan will be 5 years July 31st. He wants a cake. My 13 yr old is mortified by that. She does not want to talk about it or even think about it. I think some of us have our way of dealing with things. I used to post all the time years ago, but I get so afraid the more I read and it is just easier to cope by not reading so much.
I am in awe of all of you that post on a daily basis, hoping I will be strong enough to do that one day. I just get by day by day and try not to think about it all the time.
Sometimes I think that makes me cowardly, people want to chat with survivors and care givers.
Danny sent many an email to me when I was scared and look at what he went through. I am just not quite there yet.
Thanks for listening

Oh well, 5 years hurray....