I'm so sorry. This absolutely sucks.

My heart goes out to you both. I am sending healing thoughts your way and will be thinking of you in the days ahead. Hang on to each other with all you have; your combined strength and love will get you through each day.

Christine

Wife of Scott: SCC, Stage I retromolar 10/02--33 rad; recurrence 10/03--Docetaxol, 5FU, Cisplatin; 1/04 radical right neck, hard palate, right tonsil; recurrence 2/04--mets to skin and neck; Xeloda and palliative care 3/04-4/04; died 5/01/04.