Hi, Jeepster, was wondering how Don was doing. I`m so sorry to hear your news. Keep reminding yourself that Don could be in that 20 percent.There`s no doubt about it, it`s a fight, you will find the strength, somehow you just do what you gotta do!I know how you`re feeling, if we could just heal them ourselves. I know helpless it feels to be a caregiver and not be able to change much. It`s hard but you have to try to be optomistic for Don and yourself, I know you`re thinking easier said than done. I believe we have healing power all around us, we can call them angels, or dogs, or rocks........the name doesn`t matter.........the universe is full of loving energy..........Prayers and incense flying your way...........Hugs, Dee