To all of those who posted
I've been a nurse all my adult life and no truer words are spoken then Brian's We are not prepared for this as a society. To freguently the family lets their loss get in the way . It truly is the persons decision who has to go thru this and their choice should not be overly influenced by a desire to please the well family member. I wrote this not just for the original post but because I need to remind myself daily to follow this advice. It's not easy to do but listening and really hearing the true wishes is the fairest thing to do in a situation where none of this journey is fair, My best to all of you
Diane