Welcome, Pepper: To answer your question about the "horrors" of radiation, I would start with the statment that while there are many side effects that are fairly universal, there are many people who only experience one or two of those. [Does it sound like I am answering a question in a Presidential debate?] . Truth is, you can read and be prepared for the worst [so you won't be caught by surprise] and you may be pleasantly surprised to tolerate the IMRT fairly well. I think it is just as important for the person who will be your "helpmate" or primary caregiver during IMRT to be equally prepared to be able to spot trouble, be on the same wave length as you as to what is going on,know enough "jargon" to talk to your Docs and nurses, and know where to get support when needed. The chemo is likely to be an issue to deal with as well. What chemo will you have? Are you going to attempt to continue working during tx.? How many tx's will you have? Have you discussed getting a PEG? Let us know more about your program and your start dates. And remember, you can research just about anything here. Good Luck. Amy in the Ozarks