I want to thank all of you....I was getting a bit crazy over all of this. I have spoken with my dermatologist, and called my surgeon again. The surgeon did tell me that the side was unlikely to be HPV, but he is planing to take more out...he wants to see everything heal as I had 3 wisdom teeth out at the same time. He told me to stop worrying about spreading it to the kids and that now that we know what it is, it is unlikely to get really bad as we will be watching.