A lovely eulogy--sounds like Lynn dit it 'her way'---and who of us should say she was wrong??

Cancer IS a beast, and with the best will in the world and all the fighting and girding imagineable, it will pick off as and when it decides.

For me, the fight is to simply live with it as best I can--at least Lynn was spared 8 months of the 'increasing/decreasing' bit--take comfort from that.

I'm sorry for your loss John

Brenda

Brenda in UK--Diagnosis 30/5/07--undifferentiated carcinoma in right jawbone and muscles. Stage 4
6/7/07--new diagnosis primary is in lung. Finished 4cycles of palliative carboplatin/gemcitabine
therapy September 07
Now dying to live!