Thank you both so much, feels like we've been going thru this alone. As I said, wish I seen this site before. Will do all of that with the thyroid; anyone else see the grumpiness/meaness? Not to be a martyr; isn't it darn hard to be a 24/7 happy caregiver?

Thank you Joanna, after seeing a site like this, just wish I'd seen it sooner. Thank you for words of kindness and support. I didn't realize how much of a difference it made; thought I was doing it more for my husband. Now selfishly realize how much I am getting.

Thanks to all of you! Annie