Thanks Amy and SHar. Right now he is home, on Tylenol 3, but pretty soon that wil become something more potent I was told. Because of the Tylenol he is constipated which worries him the most. The specialist said as long as he can swallow he can stay home. He refuses to ask what to expect that is the way he is. He says I take it as it comes. But I like to know what to look out for. His mind is clear, talking hurts becauseof earlier laser treatment in september his tong was affected. The swelling is severe on the left side, it has gone to the lymphnodes and 6 weeks of everyday radiation did not stop the growth one bid.
Ofcourse will I be there for him in everyway possible.
I would like him to take a week vacation and he is thinking about it. He loves the sun and has traveled extensively in his life. Maybe a place closer to home, but just to get away from home, his kids etc etc. Just sitting at home waiting...... I feel is not the right approach and he seems to agree with me.
Thanks for listening that helps me. Mieke 61