Dear llTJ70, [is that right?]. As a caregiver, you will have a full plate ? Are you ready? [dumb question, because none of us really is]. Please read the "getting through it" posts here-they will help you both to formulate a "battle plan". And please remember that we will support you in any way possible. Just ask! [p.s. could we have a nickname or something to address our posts to you?] Amy in the Ozarks