Amy,
I used the patch, and enhanced it with Oxydose 4-5 times a day (PRN). It helped ease the pain. Do not let him forget to take the stool softeners. I was neglectful, and that experience was almost as bad as the pain. I have heard that the reaction to the
Erbitux means that it is working. My best to you both and just hang in there. It will soon be getting better.
Rob J.