Cindee, thank you for sharing with us in what all is going on in your life. You have a big plate full to deal with! My 2 dearest friends are 8 yr. suvivors[to date] of breast cancer. So keep you spirits up about that challange. Someone in your family will need to stay on top of Blue Shield and watch each Explaination of Benefit to be ready to challange anything that doesn't look right to you. We have a Blue Cross policy and I asked to be assigned a "Case Management" nurse for John. She has visited us, seen John's condition and assured us that she would see to it that we get everything he needs. At this point, I believe her. Get all the help on board that you can and stay with us so we can help. Amy