I 2nd the PEG tube. I talk to a lot of people when they first begin treatment and the 2 most important items are nutrition and attitude. Of course, you need to have confidence in your medical team as well. So many people have a macho attitude and want to go thru it without the tube. Bad idea! Good luck to both of you! I always felt like this was tougher on my wife, the caregiver, than it was on me. I'm 51 and have my whole life ahead of me. Hang in there and get support if you even think you could use it, whether it's here or thru family and friends, or a support group.