5 weeks post-surgery. Wow, that was intense. Still some swelling from flap reconstruction inside cheek and I can't open my mouth wide, so still soft foods. Arm (flap donation site) still healing, but keeping it wrapped and it isn't a big deal, I know it will be back to full use sometime in the next several months. Good news - all lymph nodes that were removed and margins are clear so no additional treatment for now. Just healing from surgery and the typical wait and watch for many years. All in all, I'm happy with outcome, but surgery was a much bigger deal than I thought.