Papa,
I just wanted to tell you to encourage your wife to get to this site as well, there are a ton of us caregivers on here, and we are all willing to help support her through this. This is certainly not just happening to you, and she is going to need some real support when you arent able to give it to her. We are a good bunch of people here and want to be here for the two of you!!
Jennie


Caregiver to Erik -1st DX 12/22/2005 SCC of Tongue, T3N1M0, hemi-glossectomy,60 nodes removed, carboplatnin,Erbitux, 35Rads.
Reoccurrence T1N0M0 4/14/08-partial glossectomy-16 weeks Erbitux and Taxol-
3rd reoccurrence 5/18/12- partial glossectomy