OMG, I feel so inaquate. By ya'll's replies, I realize my own ignorance at not even bein' able to tell u what stage, location, etc., I am . Seems like I have a lot of catching up to do. Am 54, ex-smoker now goin on second week. Gotta start somewhere, surgeon states we have GOOD MARGINS on all sites, tongue , gums, and bone. And I feel so humbled by all the replies from each and everyone here, my best to all. I hope time will allow a more personal reply to each of u. THANKS FOR THE SHOW OF SUPPORT!!