Hi Kimmy ..went for my 2nd consultation at a Comprehensive Cancer Center. Much different than the first. This surgeon is an ENT surgical oncologist. The nodule is larger (depth wise) than the written reports (from first 2 drs). They also re-read the pathology specimen (slide) which shows possible lymph node involvement. Omg. Never thought this would happen to me...right? Surgery is scheduled for Nov 5th. Partial glossectomy and neck dissection (so they can microscopically check the lymph nodes). I am 67 and have similar concerns to you. I am very pleased with the new doctor and the team approach to my case.
Always...always, get a second opinion. I will be praying for you and a speedy complete recovery. We can do this!!

TRIXIE2