Thanks so much for sharing your struggles. At least I know I’m not crazy. What I’ve experienced is lots of loving friends and family who will simply dismiss my concerns, and say things like, “No, you don’t spit when you speak.”, etc, but I know they’re just trying to spare my feelings. I wish people could just tell me the truth. I totally understand the chipping teeth issue, I went through it and ended up having them all removed. For me now, it’s been 11 years since, and 17 years since cancer diagnosis. Funny that you should say wearing a mask gave you some sort of comfort; I felt the same.


Age 59
DX SCC T3N1M0 R BOT 10/04 135lbs
TX Hemi-Gloss 11/04
MET Neck 12/04
TX 01/05 G-Tube,PortCath,6wks chem+6wks chem& IMRT,Max dose
06/05 RND,42 nodes 1 bad,All clear 120lbs
DX femoral hernia 09/09,repair 10/09 94lbs
HBO 11-12/10
11/10 All teeth out,05/11 dentures
DX hypothyroid,04/13
DX inguinal hernia,repair,04/15 127lbs
DX cachexia (CACS),03/16 98lbs
DX EPI, TX PERT,10/18 115lbs
DX RFS,11/18
DX iron deficiency anemia,02/19 118lbs
TX infusions,04-06/19 115lbs
DX calcified atheroma carotid