the white board comes in handy! I used to write the day of the week and the date each day so that he would know. His mind got a little lost during treatment but remember how it was during covid...we lost track of the day of the week so easily!

i also put up how much of each syringe he needed to use for his feeding tube.

also a great place to write something nice.


Spouse of 58 yr old with BOT cancer
Stage 4a HPV16 positive
3 chemo treatments cisplantin
35 radiation treatments 7000 cGy
former smoker/chewed tobacco for 38 yrs.
1/2020 diagnosed with cancer near TMJ
4/2020 chemo 5 days every 2 weeks
6/2020 proton therapy
9/21/2020 cancer free