Hi—I understand your anxiety. My husband and I waited to tell our adult children and family members until after the biopsy. Once we told them, it was a relief and could feel their loving support throughout. But that period between the doctors telling you they are suspicious of cancer and waiting for the results was more anxiety producing than the treatment. Once we knew for sure what he would be dealing with and the treatment plan, the mental relief was palpable. I am glad you have found this group—they are great! Check in frequently. Sending love and support!