Hey oc12,

I'm so sorry about your diagnosis. I want to reassure you that you're not alone, we're all with you on here.

I was diagnosed on May 20th with tongue cancer. The phoone call to my family was terrifying, but their love and support has blown me away. Enjoy your meal, push your diagnosis to the back of your mind and really have an amazing night. Just be you when you deliver the news .