Hi again Michelle

I am a SURVIVOR. You can find my story here: http://www.oralcancerfoundation.org/ubb/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/14/t/000018.html

I consider myself on of the more fortunate. Though I did have 39 radiation treatments and 8 chemotherapy, my journey was not near as bad as some of the others here. Each and every one of us is different.

I would be the first to suggest talking with the docs about a possible PEG. Nutrition and hydration are going to be extremely important. Plan ahead, even if it does not become necessary. As an RN I am sure that you will likely pay much attention to your mother's doctors. By now I am sure that you know the drill, questions, questions, questions. Write them down as they come to you so that you will not forget to ask them.

Be strong for your mom. Don't let the unknown get to you. We face the unknown each and every day that we awaken. Ask, read and learn. There is more information here at OCF than one could ever absorb. Become a sponge for your mom. If mom is capable, get her here also. There IS strength in numbers.

Bill