thank you Christine. It was concerning to get that call but I agree, sooner rather later is good. And thank you for the perspective that most of the members I'm seeing keep coming back to share and encourage and the majority go on with life so it's not a great sampling.

He's still ruminating that he has to go through this again. While I don't blame him, it might take many wake up calls to get his attention and take this cancer/healing stuff seriously.