hugs to you and your mother Michelle. I'm a caregiver but it's hard to take it all in before, during and after. I'm not sure I would still be able to walk through this without my faith! All I can say for you from my experience is that your mom has to do all they say or the road will be far worse for her. My husband refuses to do what he has been told and is paying the consequences. It is a hard path for all involved.

Best wishes as decisions are made.

Survivors will come here and give you more info. They have been a foundation of information for me through this path

Last edited by ConnieT; 11-04-2018 07:28 AM.

Spouse of 58 yr old with BOT cancer
Stage 4a HPV16 positive
3 chemo treatments cisplantin
35 radiation treatments 7000 cGy
former smoker/chewed tobacco for 38 yrs.
1/2020 diagnosed with cancer near TMJ
4/2020 chemo 5 days every 2 weeks
6/2020 proton therapy
9/21/2020 cancer free