thank you KristenS.

My daughter's fiance talked to husband last week about proposing...now mind you, we've seen him once but when I sent pic to husband showing her hand with a ring on it, he said, Is that an engagement ring?" That was the start of it last week after 3rd chemo treatment. Cognition has gone down quickly. Today really shocked me though as I knew what he was like looking at the puzzle last week and this week...almost a blank stare even when I tried to help him.

This is going to be a long haul I"m afraid. I do think I will talk to the nurses on Thursday which is his last radiation appt.



Spouse of 58 yr old with BOT cancer
Stage 4a HPV16 positive
3 chemo treatments cisplantin
35 radiation treatments 7000 cGy
former smoker/chewed tobacco for 38 yrs.
1/2020 diagnosed with cancer near TMJ
4/2020 chemo 5 days every 2 weeks
6/2020 proton therapy
9/21/2020 cancer free