Thank you! I was just called today actually with my diagnosis so this is helpful news for me. I do have a cancer center nearby, I don't know the exact method to get referred, but when I see the ENT tomorrow I am going to make it known that I want an oncologist and treatment from the cancer center. He called mine squamous cell and said I'm T1 but close to becoming a T2. So it looks like I have a similar diagnosis as you so far.

Laura Age 40
Tongue lesion on left side grew and was hurting in mid-August
Dx as squamous cell carcinoma on 9.18.18
Left Neck Dissection and tongue surgery, lost a fourth of my tongue on 10.1.18, tumor had grown to a T3
Margins were clear except front section of tongue margin had three stray cancer cells that were not in the tumor
Additional surgery 10.18.18 to remove another cm near where the stray cells were found
33 radiation treatments from Nov 2018 through Jan 2019