My husband has trouble eating too. It's hard for caregivers-- I understand, he has a tumor over his whole tongue and his surgery took about half his tongue away. We'd all have trouble eating with such circumstances. What I've tried is, make it tasty and easy. Mashed potatoes with gravy, Ice cream and whipped cream, smoothies are good. He has a Magic Bullet-- a Minnie blender to take meats and puree them. Distraction is a good tactic too--get your loved one watching a movie. Keep them busy watching and they'll eat more than if they were just concentrating on the meal. Good Luck!