Hi Joy!
I did TORs 5/9 at Stanford with Dr. Holsinger. Started rads at Stanford 6/13 with Dr. Le. I chose TORs knowing we could identify the primary (mine was unknown) with an 80% likelihood and could then reduce the average radiation intensity from 70 to 60 Gy as well as reduce the primary radiation volume. I am having prophylactic radiation on both sides of the neck at lower intensity.
Be sure to do the swallowing and neck exercises and keep walking/exercising as you can. I do my rads in the afternoon on linac 14. That team is the best!
If you'd like to write, speak, or meet in person since we are both getting similar treatment in the same time frame at Stanford, feel free to direct message me.

Best of luck!
Stef