Glenn,
I don't believe that was Tom's intention, to throw a false absolute. I understand your desire for good, accurate information being given on this board, but the way to accomplish that doesn't need to be by trying to embarrass nor riducule other posters. Tom has been a great source of encouragement on here, why try to make him feel silly?? You have made it clear that you believe the religious aspect can make people leave the boards. Other posters attitudes can do the same and I think that needs to be pointed out. And please don't anyone come on and tell me that's just Glenns way. He's a bright, articulate man with alot to offer and he's as capable as the rest of us to offer it with some sensitivity.

Gino, concerning the stiff neck. I had a neck disection and had my lower left jaw replaced and my neck is quite stiff. Even so, it's amazing how well a person can adjust to something like that. It bothered me alot at first but now I only notice it when I'm doing a physical activity and even then, I simply find ways to compensate for it. Let's hope you don't have any of that stiffness, as Glenn said, it's not the same for everyone. Good luck with your decision. I think the chemo/radiation route is the smart choice.
Minnie