Well just to update. We researched and found him a great oncologist with a lot of experience in OC. Hes at a cancer center in our area. He just had an MRI and CT scan this past Friday. He goes for the results on Monday.

His first meeting with the oncologist was a good one. He really likes her and she is very kind and understanding. According to her the spot is less than 2cm and she cannot feel any lymphs in his neck or jaw area enlarged. She said thats a good size that its localized, but said to take that very lighting until we get the results from the MRI/CT back.

For the first time in my life ive seen my dad show emotion. Hes obviously very shaken up. Not so much worrying about himself, but the possibility of leaving his kids behind. So we have been trying to keep him busy with various tasks around the house to keep his mind from going there.

Of course it hasnt been easy at all on me or my mother. We are both pretty nervous wrecks and I havent been sleeping as well as I would like with my mind so heavy.