Hi we are still all in shock!!!and scared....what does this mean? I have always said learning and educating ourselves on head and neck cancer helps us fight. I cannot find any real information on this.

If anyone may have some advice or information I would greatly appreciate it.

He just got cheo port put in Friday starts chemo this week. He can not really talk he must be so frustrated not to be able to really voice his feeling. He has always been "the glass is half full" type of guy. I have never seen him like this it is heartbreaking. Our kids 20 and 16 have been so strong helping their dad, they seem defeated.

I am so lost and scared.... we need HOPE.. or information the unknown is what is so scary. Can Cheo at this point help him??? or just make him sicker and sicker...we just want him to have some sort of better quality of life then what he has right now.....

Thank you for reading this any advice, information would be greatly appreciated...


care giver
Husband 46years old

2007 scc tongue RT side
surgery, dissection RT side lymph nodes 2 involved
RT and cheo cisplatin 3 rounds
January 2008 PET clean

July 2015
scc larynx
surgery
proton radiation
trac
peg
Jan new scc LT lymph node neck
Pet Feb activity
Bone biopsy spine positive for scc
METASASIS frown !!!!