I am new to this forum but can already see some wonderful and very supportive people that are here. I have just found out this week that my sister's tongue cancer has returned. She was treated with surgery only 3 years ago. I became her caretaker following the surgery to allow her husband, who was self empolyed, to return to work since they did not have insurance. They had cancelled their insurance only a couple of months prior to the diagnosis. Fortunately this time they do have insurace. But aside from this, I am terribly scared because just 5 years ago we lost our brother very unexpectantly in his sleep. He died of a seizure. My sister is schedule for surgery again next week on the left lateral side of her tongue which is where it occured before. I suppose that there should be a question in there but I am mainly terrified. Any thoughts would be appreciated....thank you.